I can't imagine how awful it is to loose a baby pre or post birth, but can sympathise as we were very nearly in that situation when pregnant with our son. At 20 weeks a fibroid I didn't know I had until I got pregnant started to degenerate and I was at risk of loosing my baby and becoming seriously ill myself. The doctors debated as to whether to terminate my pregnacy electively but I persuaded them otherwise and managed to carry our son to 26 weeks and 3 days before having an emergency section. We then went through 14 weeks of daily traumas in special care baby unit but thankfully have a beautiful son though life still has its traumas as he has cerebral palsy giving him trouble with mobilisation. We count ourselves very lucky and know it could have been very different and my heart felt sympathies go to anyone who looses a child .
Here's my baby card on a lighter note as at the moment there seems to be a lot of little boys arriving in the world.